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judelianaphotodiary:

daniiphae:

This is very hard for me at this moment in my life to express my heart/mind to the world, but I will say these last few months have been the worst months of my life. I was dating someone (J$tash) that abused me verbally ,emotionally and physically throughout the end duration of our relationship. Monday morning on September 15th 2014 my life was forever, changed. A person I thought and believed I could trust, whom I gave my love/time/energy to brutally punched me in my face repeatedly with his fists while I became slowly unconscious covered in blood in his brooklyn apartment bed. After he was done he told me to not tell anyone to not tell my friends, He also started to prepare legal action to protect himself in case I pressed charges against him. He cried and became unstable within his emotions and was apologetic towards his actions, but would continue to say i did this to myself.

He then boarded a flight to Japan a few hours after and has been sending me text messages claiming he will destroy me even more than he already did. He said he will ruin my life! I got brutally beaten for confronting him on infidelity which caused him to become violent in an instant.

Do not interpret this as a cry for help this is honestly a decision to speak up against domestic violence for those who cant due to the manipulative acts our abusers inflict on us to never speak up and for those who didn’t survive because of brutal domestic violence.

I will not allow myself to sit in the shadows of darkness and disrespect myself for not taking a stand.

I am speaking out for all my women!

Be brave this is what bravery looks like.


Abuser: Justin Joseph / J$tash

my beautiful friend dani. another victim of domestic abuse, smfh. thank you for speaking out, and being so strong to come forward and blast that scum of the earth who did this to you. dani you are one of the most kind hearted girls I know and to think ANYONE would want to hurt you is unreal to me. you nor anyone else deserves to be the victim of such violent aggression. I hope to god he doesn’t get away with this. Much love to all my strong sisters out there speaking up against domestic abuse. Love to my girl Dani, keep that chin up Mama❤️

battlereadyprince:

I am absolutely sick and tired of the assertion that the human mind is not capable of deliberate malicious action unless its abilities are compromised.

jackanthonyfernandez:

theslayyer:

I’m Out
a primarily r&b mix with some hip hop about independent ladies, many who are fed up with boys.

1. he wasn’t man enough for me - toni braxton. // 2. how many times - k. michelle. // 3. girl talk - tlc. // 4. yes - beyoncé. // 5. i should have cheated - keyshia cole. // 6. one minute man - missy elliott ft. ludacris. // 7. itty bitty piggy - nicki minaj. // 8. if you had my love - jennifer lopez. // 9. independent women - destiny’s child. // 10. shake it off - mariah carey. // 11. like a boy - ciara. // 12. eve - eve ft. miss kitty. // 13. fuck me - stooshe. // 14. bossy - kelis ft. too $hort. // 15. pretty girl rock - keri hilson. // 16. hat 2 da back - tlc. // 17. walk on by - melanie fiona. // 18. why don’t you love me - beyoncé. // 19. without me - fantasia ft. kelly rowland & missy elliott. // 20. hit ‘em up style (oops!) - blu cantrell. // 21. read between the lines - aaliyah. // 22. boy - little mix. // 23. do my thing - estelle ft. janelle monáe. // 24. i’m out - ciara ft. nicki minaj.

[listen]


Welp literally 24 amazing songs in a row

jackanthonyfernandez:

theslayyer:

I’m Out

a primarily r&b mix with some hip hop about independent ladies, many who are fed up with boys.

1. he wasn’t man enough for me - toni braxton. // 2. how many times - k. michelle. // 3. girl talk - tlc. // 4. yes - beyoncé. // 5. i should have cheated - keyshia cole. // 6. one minute man - missy elliott ft. ludacris. // 7. itty bitty piggy - nicki minaj. // 8. if you had my love - jennifer lopez. // 9. independent women - destiny’s child. // 10. shake it off - mariah carey. // 11. like a boy - ciara. // 12. eve - eve ft. miss kitty. // 13. fuck me - stooshe. // 14. bossy - kelis ft. too $hort. // 15. pretty girl rock - keri hilson. // 16. hat 2 da back - tlc. // 17. walk on by - melanie fiona. // 18. why don’t you love me - beyoncé. // 19. without me - fantasia ft. kelly rowland & missy elliott. // 20. hit ‘em up style (oops!) - blu cantrell. // 21. read between the lines - aaliyah. // 22. boy - little mix. // 23. do my thing - estelle ft. janelle monáe. // 24. i’m out - ciara ft. nicki minaj.

[listen]

Welp literally 24 amazing songs in a row